Take a Stand Against Domestic Violence

By: Alaina Gizzo
Posted In: Opinion

One in every four women will become a victim to domestic violence in her lifetime. According to the National Coalition of Domestic Violence, most times these cases are never reported to the police.

October was Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Did you become any more aware of the issue? With the month also being occupied with important issues and celebrations such as Breast Cancer Awareness and Columbus Day, it’s hard for Domestic Violence Awareness to actually make an impact.

Supporters often wear a purple ribbon in attempts to raise awareness. This is a great start; however, most individuals did not become anymore aware of the issue. Simply acknowledging an issue does not help others obtain resources for prevention.

Recently I began an internship with an organization that faces the everyday reality of domestic violence. A quick glance at posters and pamphlets during my first week truly opened my eyes to the facts of this issue. One particular poster questioned the reader as to whether or not they have experienced a damaging head injury. Bulleted questions lined the page asking, “Have you been thrown downstairs?” or “Have you been choked until you blacked out?” I never realized that because of abusers, many victims who suffer from head injuries experience permanent health problems including constant pain from the injury or trouble with normal brain functions.

Perhaps the most horrifying aspect of domestic violence lies in the fact that most victims continue to live with their abusers. Realistically, it is difficult for a single mother of a low-income family to financially support her family while simultaneously taking care of the children and maintaining household duties. It’s simply impractical for an abuser to obtain a restraining order while the mutual children remain entangled witnesses in the cycle of domestic violence.

The sad reality of the situation presents itself in the knowledge that, for these victims, it will happen again and again. Many feel they have no choice in this situation and manage to endure the suffering, believing that this is, ultimately, the better option for their children. Even victims without children are incapable of imagining a different situation for themselves.

As responsible citizens, we are able to have compassion for these victims. However, it comes to a point when we must acknowledge the true nature of the issue. Domestic violence is a problem that some victims must face every day. For too many, this conflict is fatal. We should inform the public with the unpleasant details. Maybe then we could work toward permanent prevention.